http://karmaeve.net/rss en-us info@karmaeve.net Sun, 18 May 2008 19:03:32 -0500 Sat, 04 Sep 2010 11:50:04 -0500 http://karmaeve.net An erotic survey just for you!

Let's hear your opinion!

What is your fun summer romp fantasy?


Making love in water! (Pool, hot tub, ocean, etc...)
29% (2 votes)

Having sex in a public place! (Park, beach, etc...)
14% (1 votes)

Having sex with new partners when traveling!
0% (0 votes)

Attending a swingers' event!
57% (4 votes)

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I have given up on men and I'm sharing my apartment with a girl who also has no men in her life right now. The more we are together, the more my feelings grow for her. How can I tell her about my feelings? Carrie

Carrie,

If you and this girl are friends, you need to find out if she's "into" females before you approach her with how you feel.

If you find out she is into women, then you need to find out if she's into you. Has she given you signs that she has intimate feelings for you?

Also, keep in mind if being with other women is not a lifestyle you (or she) are not trying to live, then you have to ask yourself is this just a phase you're both going through. If you both were into men before and you're going through a "man drought" right now, what happens when a nice guy comes into the picture? One of you may be stuck feeling like the 3rd wheel or left out completely.

It's a lot to think about when taking a same-sex relationship to an intimate level. Most importantly, are you willing to give up the friendship for an intimate relationship?

We hope this has been helpful. Good luck to you and keep Erotically Speaking posted on the final outcome.
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Two months can seem like a mighty long time when ya ain't gettin' ya freak on, but I'm here to tell you, there is something that can be done. You can go about this 1 of 2 ways.

You can take this time to allow emotional and physical healing from the last sex trip you were on and say to hell with sex all together. This can be a time to "reclaim" your virginity and become a born again virgin! Or as my girlfriend calls it, Vagina Rehab. Meanwhile, use this single time as "You" time. Pamper yourself. Treat yourself to getting your hair and nails done. Schedule regular appointments to receive facials and massages. Make a list of books you've been wanting to read and have some quiet time for your mind.

A suggested book list:
1. Patti's Pearls:Lessons in Living, Genuinely, Joyfully, Generously by Patti La Belle.
2. Sugar by Bernice L. McFadden
3. In The Meantime by Iyanla Vanzant

Make a reservation at a special restaurant you've always wanted to eat in. Find a hobby you'll enjoy. Participate in a meditation or yoga group. Nashville has a variety of self-improvement and fitness groups right at your fingertips. Take this time to reconnect with self on all levels. Men as well need time for self-love. Then when Mr. or Ms. Sex-You-Proper comes along, you'll be looking good, feeling even better and they can pick up treating you like a celebrity where you leave off.

Or, you can dive into your pool of sexual freedom head first! Do the damn thang and lose your inhibitions and try things you've always wanted to try sexually. Seek out a fun, willing and let's not forget, a FINE participant and go for it!

Break out the whipped cream, strawberries and chocolate and make a sexy sundae surprise! Dig out the lingerie that's been stored away for way too long. Dim the lights and get out the scented candles. Get out the furry handcuffs and play a game of cops and robbers. Play a game of naked Twister or strip poker. Make up the rules as you go along. Who cares if you're playing by the book, just get in the buff and have a fantastic time. Let's not forget, it's also about location, location, location! Don't do it in your normal bedroom spot. Do it all throughout the house! There's also a whole world out there that can become little secret sexual spots. Just don't get caught, unless that's apart of your game. Get a copy of my book, Erotic Bloom and act out some of the steamy scenes from the short stories. You and your special someone be creative and bring the freak out in one another.

Then of course if all else fails, make a special trip to Hustler at 1400 Church Street and purchase some special sex gifts or videos. Get out the adult toy box you have hidden under your bed or in the back of the closet and entertain yourself. Just remember, whatever decision you make enjoy yourself and let me know the end results.

Erotically Speaking,
Karma Eve
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Orgasms are just as much psychological as they are physical because it's experienced in the part of the brain that rules emotions. The sexual release decreases irritability and creates relaxation. Ahhhhh! Just puts a warm feeling in your heart and a smile on your face. It's said orgasms don't have to end until life does. An active sex life is the key to being orgasmic in our old age.

This list I've created is like the Baskin-Robbins of orgasms. There are just so many flavors, so many ways. Let's go through the list and see how many orgasms our wonderful bodies can have. (This list is in no particular order.)

1 Extragenital-This is also known as the Spontaneous orgasm. An orgasm is reached with no genital contact. During this "no-touch" orgasm, both men and women can achieve this from passionate kissing, having breasts and/or nipples licked, etc. Also, from having erotic thoughts or dreams. In a sexual research study participants listened to a 10 minute guided imagery tape of sexual fantasies, then using their own imagery, the participants were able to achieve an orgasm. This type of orgasm for women during sleep is the same as a man having a "wet" dream. For women, it's called a "sleep" orgasm.

2 Whole Body-This orgasm is achieved usually when there is an intense connection on 3 levels, emotional, sensual and sexual. This is an orgasm that can be felt throughout the entire body. This can also be achieved through masturbation and multiple orgasms.

3 Simultaneous-This is mutual orgasm that partners achieve together, not before or after a partner has theirs.

4 Multiple-This occurs when a man or woman has 2 or more orgasms without completely returning to the resolution phase, which is the final phase where the body leaves its sexual state and returns to normal. Then within multiple orgasms you have 3 different types of multiple orgasms; compound singles, sequential and serial orgasms.

5 Missed-For women, this can be a deep-rooted psychological denial of sexual pleasure. This is when they have all the signs of an orgasm but they just don't "feel" the orgasm.

6 Dry or Implosive-This is a long, slow series of spasms that's followed by a rush of orgasmic energy. Men can experience this without ejaculation.

7 Clitoral vs Vaginal-THE BIG ONE!! The clitoris is the easiest way and sometimes the only way for a woman to have an orgasm. Having vaginal or G-spot stimulation creates a wonderful, orgasmic experience. Sometimes the combination of both clitoral and vaginal stimulation can be "spiritual." The difference between the two is how intense the muscular contractions can be as well as how strong her vaginal muscles are. The clitoral orgasm can be short burst and have a higher pitched feeling, while a vaginal orgasm can have a longer, deeper feel. WHEW! Ladies, can you feel it right now?!

8 Finally, there is the dreaded Fake orgasm-The main reason for faking an orgasm is to hurry and bring the sexual moment to an end. During research it has been discovered more women fake orgasms than men. Hmmmm...I wonder why?

After learning what all the different types of orgasms are, the homework lesson tonight is to go home and see how many of these we can achieve. Have fun!!

THE QUESTION OF THE MONTH: Have you ever faked an orgasm and if so, why?
Hit me up at KarmaEveK@yahoo.com

Don't forget to check out www.KarmaEve.net. Take the weekly sex survey, listen to some good sounds and sign the guest book to let me know you came by.

I have the "Karma" signal in the air! I'm looking for anyone who is a sex toy representative. If you are a adult toy "pusher," hit me up and let's chat! KarmaEveK@yahoo.com.

Erotically Speaking,
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Let's start with the history and myths of masturbation. Masturbation was and still is to some, considered a sin and a form of self-abuse. It was believed it could cause blindness, stunt the growth of sex organs, as well as effect one's mental health. Some other myths were one could go bald, grow hair in the palms of their hands, get acne or worse, lose the ability to have children.
Young ladies were made to wear Brillo-pad like gloves to bed while young men were forced to wear metal chastity style belts to prevent erections. OUCH!

Remember, if there is a bad side to anything, then there has to be a good side! The benefits of masturbation for women are it relieves menstrual cramps and headaches. It also protects against cervical infections by increasing the acidity of the cervical mucus and moving debris out of the cervix.
For men, masturbation flushes out old sperm with low motility from the genital tract. Then for both sexes, it protects against STDs, lowers blood pressure, decreases insomnia, releases mood elevating hormones and stimulates the immune system to help build up resistance to common infections. Looks like all that playing with yourself is healthy!

Some cultures not only encourage masturbation, but sees it as a passage into manhood. In some tribes manhood is associated with the amount of semen ejaculated than with the size of the penis.

There are so many masturbation websites available that if you aren't sure what you're doing, you can definitely get help. From MasturbationLounge.com to AdvancedMasturabation.com, each sites gives you videos, pictures, techniques and some sites have a shopping area for you to purchase books, DVDs and toys.
There are also a number of ways to masturbate.
Anal masturbation which I is self explanatory.
Mutual masturbation, where 2 or more people stimulate themselves and/or each other in the presence of one another. This technique is sometimes used as a replacement for penis/vaginal intercourse. Ladies, we also have clitoris masturbation by stroking and/or rubbing our clitoris with fingers, sex toys or other objects. Then there is vaginal masturbation, where fingers, toys, etc...are inserted into the vagina. I think our best one ladies, is the one I call the "Secret" masturbation! Sit cross-legged and apply pressure to the clitoris and clench the vaginal muscles. This can be done at work, on the plane or anywhere in public without anyone knowing!! Hence, the "Secret!"

Men aren't as lucky as we are when it comes to creative ways to masturbate. The most common way for men is holding the penis with a fist-like, firm grip and moving up and down on the shaft until ejaculation and orgasm. Or they can use the fingers and thumb back and forth over the entire penis or just the head of it for a lighter masturbation experience. Another way is to lie face down and stroke the penis against the mattress, pillow or even an artificial vagina. There is also anal masturbation for them as well. Yes, your experience differs if you are circumcised or uncircumcised.

MASTURBATION TIPS: Ladies, get a Mardi Gras necklace (beads) and cut it so it's one long string. Then put it between your legs and hold it with one hand in front and one hand behind you. Saw it back and forth over your clit until you cum. It's amazing and cheaper than a vibrator!

Men, when using whatever method to masturbate place your off hand at the base of the penis, above the scrotum, and pull down so that the skin along the shaft of your penis is tight. This tends to increase sensitivity and will probably bring you to climax a bit faster, but it can provide a great sensation.

Depending on your feelings towards masturbation, it may or may not be a "touchy" subject for you. At least now you're a little more educated when you have to take matters into your own hands. (I know, keep my day job!)

QUESTION OF THE MONTH:
If you caught your partner masturbating, how would you feel? Do you feel it's harmless because everyone does it? Would you feel like a failure, like you're not pleasing your mate sexually? Would you feel shocked and think your partner is a pervert? Let me know your answer and your masturbation experience. KarmaEveK@yahoo.com]]> info@karmaeve.net -0500 http://karmaeve.net If you are interested in booking Karma Eve for a show, contact The Hurd Agency at 615-399-9901!

Karma Eve
KarmaEveK@yahoo.com

Marquette Carney
P.O. Box 171078
Nashville, TN
37217
615-365-7188
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